Codependency involves putting others ahead of oneself. Codependents obsess about others.

Codependency is widespread in unhealthy relationships. People with codependency attempt to save others from themselves. They may suffer while striving to "cure" an abusive or addictive relationship.

These types of behaviors typically are learned from early life experiences.

Some individuals may make a sacrifice on behalf of others in order to express thankfulness. By "saving" someone, you give them power and worth while your worth will most likely feel unfulfilled over time. People with codependency may feel responsible for the needy partner. A caregiver may try to "heal" someone that really needs professional help.

Sometimes children must care for their parent. Because children are still young, performing the "adult" role may be challenging. A child may overlook their own needs.  They may equate caring with stability and control.

We typically hear about codependency coupled with drug and alcohol abuse. However, codependency can evolve over the course of many problems.